Archive for February 26th, 2008

Be Careful What You Put Down Your Sink

Tuesday, February 26th, 2008
by Rob Carlton

You shouldn’t put everything down your sink, there are a few things which can block it up. If you don’t clean your drain out on a regular basis then it can quickly get clogged up. Actually your sink should only be used for waste water.

There are a few things which you should consider when cleaning your sink drain.

Food

You should not tip any waste food down the sink, no matter how small it is unless you have a garbage disposal system. This will cause your drain to get clogged up. Things which shouldn’t be put down the sink include vegetable peelings, fruit, pasta shells, butter, grease or pop corn kernels. These can block your pipes up. Bread and butter are not good for your pipes as it forms a sticky mixture which sticks inside your pipes.

Grease

You should never put grease down the drains no matter whether it is cold or hot. Grease will stick in your drain when it cools and forms a very hard plug. You should throw the grease away in an airtight container, throw this into the bin when it’s cooled down. Grease is one of the most common reasons why your drains will become clogged.

Detergents

You should only put washing up liquid down the sink, other types of detergents should not be used to put down your sink. These can clog up your pipes and cause huge problems. You may assume that it’s ok to use dishwasher liquid in your sink, however this is not suitable as it will not get broken up easily.

Pesticides

You shouldn’t ever pour pesticides down your drain. These can congeal when mixed with water which can block your sink. This can also eat away at plastic pipes and cause leaks.

Calcium Chlorate and Lime

If you have septic tanks then lots of people pour lots of calcium chlorate down the sink to stop the bad smell. It’s ok to use this in small amounts as long as it is formulated specifically for use down your strain. Calcium chlorate and line will cause major problems when it turns into cement. This can actually cause the pipes to break.

Oil

Never allow any sort of oil down your sink, especially lubricating oils, or cleaning oil. Not only is this damaging for your drain, it is also very bad for the environment. You should also avoid putting any moisturizer, baby oil or oil based soap down your sink. Throw them away by putting them in a container and in the bin.

Another thing which causes problems for your drains is hair. You should install a hair trap so that any hair is prevented from getting into your drain in the first place. Clean these filters on a monthly basis so you don’t run into any major problems.

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Adoption Poem: A Birth Mother’s Hope For Solace And Closure

Tuesday, February 26th, 2008
by Febbe Wallace

It’s a painful experience to give up your child for adoption. If you are grieving from losing your child to adoption, you are not alone. A lot of birth mothers who have given up their children feel that same pain. How do they cope with it? By sharing their experiences through an adoption poem.

Healing process and overcoming feelings of regret and guilt can start when you communicate your feelings and experience with someone you trust. It is one of the most effective ways that women, because of extreme circumstances are forced to give their children up for adoption, can gain closure.

Another way to communicate your emotions is through an adoption poem. It washes away the guilt and reinforces the knowledge that wherever your child may be, he or she is safe and may be taken cared for by adoptive parents who can give him or her, a chance at a life you’ve hoped for them. By writing down your experiences and feelings in an adoption poem, you can begin to hope, to start over and be able to carry on with your own life.

The poem can express several emotions. Birth mothers, who have come to terms with their adoption, often write prayer-poems, asking God to watch over their children. Others write poems wondering who their children are and what they will become in the future. Some dream of meeting their children again, and when that time comes, hope they will understand the choice of adoption.

You can start by reading up on poems written by other women before you write your own. If you are a member of a local adoption support group, ask for help. Chances are, they may have copies of adoption poems that may mirror your very own experience. You may also find poetry anthologies in you local library. Or, you may find adoption poems online. Do a web search and you may find an adoption poem that’s close to your heart.

You can also find many helpful guides for writing your own adoption poem online. You can write an adoption poem about how you felt when you were having your child. You can also write about your worries, your fears, and your hopes of giving your child a good life. Write an adoption poem that says something about why you had to give him or her up.

There are no hard-and-fast rule when it comes to writing adoption poems. The important thing is to express how you really feel. Through your adoption poem, you might be able to share the hope that one day your child may understand your decision and not think less of you.

Start on your own path to self-healing by writing your own adoption poem. Read more about how other birth mothers have written their own poems and start from there. One adoption poem that is well-circulated over the Internet ends with a fervent prayer to a birth mother’s son, that as he looks back and wonders why she gave her up, he would see and understand that it was love that made her let him go.

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